Ok ladies, here are some tips you must bear in mind in case you are interested in any German guy. If you are laughing all the time, they’ll think you don’t take anything seriously. You’ll notice that, in a club or a disco, very few of them come to you and flirt. They are prone to reject any guy that hits on them and that’s why the German guys are shy.Don’t get desperate if you feel they pay no attention to you. This is because they like being approached by the girl. But also some girls don’t like their male friends to flirt around with others and much less if you are a foreigner traveler. Try to catch him far from the group, when going to the toilet, for example. If you are a stranger, it will be more difficult to be approached by a German guy. In Germany, a man can be passionately in love with you for years and you would not have any idea. ) So, here’s the thing, don’t expect a spontaneous crazy night with a German – remember I am generalizing, you can always find the exception.Keep in mind that everyone is an individual and there is no sure fire way to know how each will react to different circumstances.German Men Dont Flirt as Much Again, it is important to emphasize that there are probably a handful of Casanovas in Germany that would put the most avid ladys man to shame.
There are, of course, ways to navigate the waters, communication being the main one.
“It's all about finding structures and new ways to break those barriers.” One of the things you might be doing wrong is simply not talking to the people you'd like to get to know.
“Most singles say, I'm single because I'm too shy and waiting for the other side to make the first move,” Hegmann said. They'll be grateful and honour the fact that you took a risk.” In the study, 36 percent of German men said that shyness had had a role in keeping them single – much higher than the EU average of 27 percent. Don't worry about technology stealing your love away “Dating is getting a bit different now because we are online 24/7,” Hegmann said.
It’s not that the Germans don’t talk, but they tend to stick to themselves unless they are at a party or some other social gathering where the purpose is to meet new and old friends.
So if you spot a hot guy in the supermarket and want to make contact, you will most likely have to do the talking and he may even get confused as to why you are talking to him.